Promoting Attachment After a Challenging Start

 
Deborah Gray, MSW, MPA

About the workshop

Children enter families yearning for safety and closeness.  Their foster and adoptive families have a vision of meeting these needs in a nurturing manner.  But, what if children are afraid of this closeness after they have been moved around, traumatized, neglected, and/or neurologically insulted by prenatal drug exposure?  Or, what will happen to parents’ visions when children do not respond to parents’ nurturance?  How do professionals intervene when children’s trauma or grief triggers parental reactions of disappointment, grief, or anger?


This day will be an in-depth look at evidence-based methods of intervening on behalf of children and the parents who are forming attachments with them.  Ample time will be spent giving attendees nurturing, gentle, and developmentally appropriate attachment-producing techniques.

We will look at major conclusions from theory/research in attachment by, Alan Sroufe, Mary Main, Mary Dozier, Megan Gunnar, Allan Schore, Jay Belsky, and Daniel Siegel.  The brain research that describes attachment’s role as the vehicle for downloading a stress regulation system will be thoroughly discussed.


The day will answer common questions about attachment including:

 

  • What is attachment?  What isn’t it?

  • How can parents stimulate secure attachment after children have lost a parental attachment or been through trauma or neglect?

  • How can parents position themselves for a close relationship with their children?  How will professionals assist in this?

  • Which children are most at-risk for attachment difficulties?

  • Which parents are most successful in forming attachments with their children?

  • How long does it take to form attachments after placement?

  • How can professionals help families when parents have their own issues with attachment?

This day addresses these questions, describing styles in attachment and belief systems that accompany each style of attachment.  We will also discuss ways to move to a healthier attachment style.

This workshop describes the neural imbedding and transmission of a stress regulation system that occurs between parent and child through the vehicle of attachment.  Reactive attachment disorder is defined and demystified.  Focus will be given to common attachment challenges and nurturing techniques for working with these challenges.


This workshop is required for those enrolled in the Certificate Program in Adoption and Foster Care Therapy.

 

About the presenter

Deborah Gray, MSW, MPS , is a national trainer, a psychotherapist in private practice, and the author of the well-received book, Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today’s Parents, Perspectives Press, 2002.  Her second book: Nurturing Adoptions: Creating Resilience after Neglect and Trauma is now out.  To find out more about it: Click here

Deborah has spent 20 years helping children develop attachments and work through trauma and grief. She has taught in the Trauma Certificate Program at the University of Washington School of Social Work and both graduate adoption therapy programs at Portland State University and Northwest Adoption Exchange.

About the particulars

Location: Shoreline Center
When: February 6th, 2009
Hours: 9:00am-4:30pm
Fee: $125.00 US
CEU info: 6 CEU's  Cascadia Training is approved by the NASW, Washington State Chapter, to provide continuing education units to Licensed Social Workers, Mental Health Counselors and Marriage and Family Therapists.  Certificates of Completion are awarded to attendees at the end of each workshop.  Provider number #1975-118, and is an OSPI approved provider of in-service education.  This is a "Washington State Approved Clock Hour Offering Workshop."

 
Register for this workshop     Back to Calendar
 
 
 
 
 
 
Copyright © 2008 Northwest Resource Associates and Cascadia Training. All rights reserved.
View our Privacy Policy
 
       
Cascadia Training Home About Us Register Calendar Resource Links Contact Us